To RV or Not To RV?

We made it back to Columbus, OH around 7:00 last night.  The trip home took longer than expected, partially due to the fact that we had to dump the tanks and refill the gas and propane before we returned our rented RV to its owner.  We cleaned it all out, and Jason and Curtis returned it safe and sound.

We all loved our trip and talked a lot about the pros and cons and what we would do differently if we ever did it again or if anyone asked us if they should consider an RV trip.  Here are my thoughts, in no particular order.

First, we had several advantages and/or things that worked in our favor for this trip:

1.  The weather.  We had great weather for our entire trip, minus a very few rain storms that didn't really affect us as they were short lived, not severe, or happened overnight.  If the weather had been bad, travel would have been difficult, and if we'd had to entertain 8 people trapped inside an RV with no place to go for hours on end, we would've all gone crazy.

2.  Experienced and handy drivers.  Driving an RV is not for the faint of heart.  Jason and Curtis both had experience driving large vehicles/trucks/farm equipment.  They worked together the entire trip watching out for other drivers, navigating, and keeping each other awake.  I personally would not have enjoyed the role sitting up front and helping the driver.  I was fairly stressed out when we were navigating through tiny city streets or through heavy semi traffic.  Having the 2 of them to drive was perfect for us.  Also, both Curtis and Jason, even as an actuary and a computer programmer, are extremely mechanically inclined and know how to fix things.  We had some issues with the electrical system and some warning lights that came on the dashboard.  They were able to troubleshoot these and address them.  They thought ahead to take a tool bag with them, and this came in handy.  We never had to call anyone to come help fix us.

3.  We had a newer RV and good insurance.  Curtis did his homework when he found this RV.  He was able to add it to his insurance, so we had full coverage, not just state minimum.  Thank goodness we didn't need it, but if something had happened, it likely would have cost a lot of money.  Also, we didn't break down.  If we had, we likely would have had 8 people stranded without a car or contingency plan.

4.  Resources.  Both families budgeted extra money to allow for transportation, eating out, shopping, and activities on our trip.  We used Uber to get into Boston, and rode the subway and ferry boats in NY.  We increased our cellular data usage plans to allow for internet access.  This was not cheap.  If we hadn't planned for this, we would have been stuck without as much to do to entertain the kids.  We travelled around a lot with the intention of seeing many different things, though.  If you intended to stay in one place and just relax, you may not need the same planning, but you do need to choose a good RV park.

5.  Our families get a long well.  We felt our kids were at the perfect age for this (10, 8, 6 and 6).  Any older and they would need more space or get bored, any younger and RV travel would be hard.  I cannot imagine RV travel with an infant or toddler.  Our kids really enjoy being together and we like spending time together.  You cannot dislike each other for 10 days in a small space!

6.  Planning.  Sheri did a great job of planning our trip and worked hard to make reservations ahead of time and talk to the managers at each RV park where we stayed.  She signed up for a Good Sam membership to take advantage of discounts, too.  She booked our sites several months out.  You really cannot go somewhere popular and just drive up and hope they have a place for you to park your RV.  We also planned our food and brought plenty of groceries and water for the trip.  We had extra towels, sleeping bags, a first aid kit, motion sickness medication, games, books, DVDs,...etc.  It really isn't easy to just run into a store if you're traveling in an RV.  We did stop at a Walmart along the way to restock, but only because they had easy access and a huge parking lot.

Things that we learned along the way:

1.  Not all RV parks have full hookups.  As first time RVers, we didn't "speak" RV.  I am proud to say I now know what class of RV we were, what gray water and black water is, and what slides are.  However, I just assumed that we'd pull up and be able to use our shower and bathroom no problem.  I do not camp, I do not like public restrooms, and the thought of using a campsite shower house made me cringe.  Well, I was pushed very far out of my comfort zone.  Our first RV park only had electric and water, no sewage hookup, so we could not use our RV shower/bath.  I reluctantly had to trek down do a shower house and hope I didn't catch anything.  Ha.  I completely skipped showering at the RV park in New Jersey.  Nothing in the world could convince me to go to there after the guys came back with not so glowing reviews.  If that makes me high maintenance, I will proudly claim that title.  I took a LONG shower when I got home last night.  There is not much better than your own bed and bath!

2.  It is a lot of work to set up and take down camp.  Our intent of this trip was to see and do as much as possible, so we didn't stay in one place for long.  Secondary to this, we had absolutely no down time at all.  There were no books read, no relaxing naps, no Netflix binges.  It took time to hook up, put the slide out, pack and repack, and hook/unhook the trailer.  We'd have to dump our tanks at each sites, sometimes more than once.  We said if we ever did this again, we'd probably just choose one or 2 places and spend longer times there.  We'd also make sure they had full hookups and decent amenities.

3.  It would have been nice to have a car.  I enjoy exploring little shops, restaurants, and small towns along the way.  We just couldn't do that with the RV.  We were completely reliant on shuttles and public or private transportation.  At Acadia, we literally spent hours on the shuttle bus (although it was free), to get to where we wanted to go.

Would we do this again?  Yes, but not right away, and I personally wouldn't want to do this for every vacation.  I still enjoy a nice resort or hotel or beach condo.  This is a perfect bucket list trip, though, and our kids will never, ever forget these experiences.  We made so many memories and laughed so much each day.  We will have those Sunday dinner table stories for years to come and many pictures to remind us of our journeys!

NYC

If you thought we were crazy to pack 8 people into an RV in the first place, I'm certain you now know we are insane for taking this RV to New York City.  (OK, we didn't drive the RV down 5th Avenue).  Our RV park was in Liberty Harbor in Jersey City.  We woke up to pretty heavy rain on Friday morning and were a little concerned about our plans, but the rain ended around 10:30 AM and we headed out on our adventure.  We walked to the subway station, and after we figured it all out, we rode the train into the city.  We started our day at the 9/11 Memorial.  I was surprised by my emotional response to this.  All of our kids were born several years after this occurred, so we spent some time explaining it and remembering that day.  From here, we took the train to Uptown and walked to the Empire State Building and Times Square.  We ate lunch (and some famous cheesecake) at Juniors and walked to Radio City Music Hall, Rockefeller Center, and then on to Central Park.  We spent a good part of our day in Central Park.  It was a beautiful day and the kids love climbing on the rocks, watching the street performers, and wandering through the park.  We headed back to Rockefeller Center for dinner,  and then rode the train to Wall Street and the Financial District to catch the ferry back to Liberty Harbor.  These kids are troopers.  Once again we walked almost 10 miles over the course of the day.  Our ferry back to the RV park passed by the Statue of Liberty.  It was beautiful to see at sunset, and the backdrop of the city lights and skyline in the background was truly the perfect way to finish off our trip.

Once we got back to the RV park, we decided to rest, pack up, and then head out of the city (particularly New Jersey), and to get a head start on our trip home.  We drove a couple hours and found a place to park for the night in Pennsylvania.

This has been a great trip.  We have packed so much into these past 9 days and truly have created a lifetime of memories.  We are exhausted and definitely ready for our own beds (and bathrooms), but I'm so glad that we did this.

I'll do one more post with thoughts on renting and RV, RV travel in general, pros and cons, and what we've learned along the way.  This definitely isn't for everyone, but it's been worth it for us, and I'd love to help anyone out who is thinking about doing something like this in the future!

Portland, ME and the long road to NYC

Yesterday was a planned driving day all day...from Bar Harbor, ME to NYC.  We did plan in a stop Portland, ME, to see the Portland Head Lighthouse.  We packed up in the morning and made pretty good time getting on the road.  We took our time, stopped for lunch and gas, and made our way to Portland.  We were a little nervous about parking at the lighthouse, but saw a nice parking lot and headed in.  We were wrong about the nice spot.  There was a dead end, no parking signs, and concrete barriers.  The resulted in detaching the trailer, a 3-5 point turn around, and the guys waiting patiently for the rest of us while we explored the park.

We got back on the road to New Jersey.  This ultimately resulted in a long line of RV frustrations.  Our mapping systems would only send us through tunnels which weren't allowed for RVs.  We rerouted and rerouted and ended up having to go quite a ways out of the way to find a path that would get us there without incident.  At one point, we ended up on a state route that had a sign posted AFTER we were on the route that no vehicles over 8' were allowed.  So frustrating.  We stopped for gas and saw on open Park N' Ride parking lot.  We made dinner and may or may not have had a spontaneous dance party to get us ready for the rest of the journey.  We did get a funny look from a driver retrieving his car.  We headed back on the road...apparently down an exit only path.  Oops.  Oh well, we made it back on the road and we resumed our journey.  For the last several hours, Curtis drove and Jason navigated us through highways, small towns, back roads, and a few complicated twists and turns to get us back on track.  We pulled into our RV park at Liberty Harbor in NJ around 1 AM.  The computer system was down and someone was already parked in our reserved spot.  We felt bad for the security guards left to sort this out.  They helped us find another spot and we settled in for the night.  The brightest spot at this point was the promise of sleep and the sight of Lady Liberty in the background.  It was a long day, but we were excited for our adventure in NYC.

Acadia National Park

We had decided to do some hiking through Acadia on Wednesday.  Since we have been reliant on shuttles and buses, we had to be at the RV park office at 7:45 AM to get to the Gateway Center.  Somehow, not only did everyone get up and get ready, Sheri made an awesome breakfast of pancakes and bacon on our little RV stove and microwave.  We rode the bus to the visitor center and decided to start our day hiking the Ocean Trail on the East side of the island.  The views were stunning and there were huge rocks to scale and climb along the cliffs.  We hopped on the bus and rode over to the restaurant on Jordan Pond.  They seated us outside with amazing views of the pond and mountains.  We had a fabulous lunch, including their famous popovers and homemade strawberry jam.  

After we'd fueled up and refilled our water bottles, we set out to hike up Pemetic Mountain.  This was no small feat.  It was an amazing hike with incredible views and a few tough rocks and ledges we had to climb.  I was super impressed with the kids ability to tackle this.  Jake and Megan are super climbers and definitely were more skilled and much quicker at moving over the terrain than I was!  It was definitely worth it to make it to the top.  Words truly cannot describe the view.  Unfortunately, we still had to hike back down. Ha.  When it was all said and done, we hiked over 7.5 miles yesterday.  One of the most priceless moments for me came in the middle of our hike yesterday.  With no lead in or prompting, Alex just simply said, "I don't think I'll ever forget this vacation."

We took the bus (after a bit of a long wait for a bus that wasn't full...hint:  if you aren't a fan of huge crowds don't go to Acadia in July), and headed back to the RV park.  We knew we would get in late to the park...after the shuttles stopped running....so we'd planned to take a few taxis back.  This is where we were blown away by the kindness and generosity of the RV park owners.  While we were working on our strategy to get back, my phone rang.  It was the RV park owner.  She noticed that we were not back yet and offered to come and pick us up, at no charge.  We told her that we would be happy to take a cab because we knew it was after hours, but she insisted.  What an amazing example of customer service that goes far above and beyond anything required!

We got back to the park and crashed.  We ordered pizza for everyone, cleaned up, and packed it in for the night.  I'm not sure I've felt exhaustion like that in a long time...it even made those 16 hour days in the OR seem like nothing.

Today, we head for New Jersey with plans to take a quick, one day tour in NYC tomorrow.

Bar Harbor, ME

We have packed something into every minute for the past 2 days, so I'm behind a day on our blog.  We had our first "what do we do with this RV" experience the night before last.  At 2:30 AM, some type of alarm started going off in the RV.  We knew it wasn't on fire, so we started trying to sort it out.  We got the manual out, tried hitting a few a buttons, but nothing worked.  Jason ended up going outside and opening some panel and disassembling something...which finally made it stop.  Somehow, the kids slept through all of this.  

In the morning, we got up and made the trek into Bar Harbor.  We used the Island Express bus to get back and forth, since we don't have a car with us.  This was a bit of an interesting experience because these are the busiest few weeks for tourists here.  We landed at the park on the edge of the village and walked down to the ocean.  This really might be one of the most beautiful places I have ever been in the United States.  Blue water, pine trees, and giant rocks all come together to create a masterpiece.  We found a cafe for lunch, but had to spilt up into groups to eat there.  After lunch, we wandered down to the main shopping area.  We were surprised with a torrential rain storm.  Thankfully, it only lasted about 15-20 minutes.  We wandered around a bit more, and then made our way to the College of the Atlantic where we'd booked a boat trip for the kids.

On our way here, we scoured the Internet and used Trip Advisor for suggestions on things to do.  We found a boat tour called Diver Ed's Dive in Theatre that was highly recommended for kids.  This turned out to be one of the biggest highlights of the trip so far.  Diver Ed and his crew welcome the kids on the boat and take us out about a quarter of a mile or a little more from shore.  Then Diver Ed suits up in gear and dives down, with an underwater camera, to collect sea life from the ocean floor.  It's all done in a very entertaining way.  While he's underwater, Captain Evil (Diver Ed's wife in real life), explains what he is doing and talks to him through an underwater microphone.  After his dive, he brings what he's collected up to the boat, they sort through it and then bring all of the kids up to the front of the boat to touch and hold the creatures.  The kids got to hold crabs, starfish, lobster, and sea cucumbers.  They LOVED it.  They couldn't stop talking about it last night.  We got back late last night, ate some leftovers, and all crashed into bed.  We knew we needed to get a good night of sleep as we planned to hike through Acadia the next day.

We're driving all day tomorrow, so I'll post about that, then.

Route 1

We packed up the RV and left Salem this morning.  We drove North through Massachusetts and New Hampshire into Maine.  We decided to take Route 1 for a more scenic view.  Maine is absolutely gorgeous.  It is full of beautiful trees, inlets from the Atlantic, and adorable little towns.  Even the road signs somehow seem more purposeful and artistic here.  Driving the RV through these adorable, tourist filled towns however, is an adventure all its own.  Today was the first day I wished that it had been easier to park so we could've wandered around a bit.  We made a very valiant attempt to stop in Camden, but after circling around a couple times on some pretty tight streets, we decided to move on.

Just up the road from Camden we found a place to stop for lunch.  Alex, Jake, and Andrew were so excited to have their first lobster rolls.  After lunch, we continued on toward our final destination for the next few days.  We needed a few groceries, so we stopped at a Walmart Supercenter.  Never in my entire life did I picture myself with seven other people piling out of an RV in a Walmart parking lot.  I'm certain we added to the "People of Walmart" credits today.

We found the RV park, checked in, and set up camp.  We may have literally found the nicest people in the world here.  Everyone waves and says hello, our RV neighbors immediately greeted us and help Jason and Curtis hook up the water and drainage, and the park managers gave us their personal cell phone numbers "just in case."  I am not much of an outdoorsy person, nor do I really enjoy camping, but I'm doing my best to go with the flow and just have fun with my boys.  We grilled out for dinner and made S'mores over the fire pit.  I love spending this time with my family, and I know that the kids will remember this trip for the rest of their lives.

Boston, MA

 

Today is Jacob's 8th birthday!  Happy Birthday, Jake!  We started off the day with breakfast at our campsite and made plans for the day.

In the Phipps family tradition, at least part of summer vacation has to include some educational adventure.  Growing up, no matter where we were in the country, we always found some educational or historic landmark to visit.  So, today we decided to go to Boston and walk the Freedom Trail.  We started the day reading The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere.  We then used Uber from the campground to get to Boston.  We met at Boston Commons and started out on our adventure.  I walked the Freedom Trail about a year ago, in the Fall, on a weekday, with grown people.  Attempting this on an excruciatingly hot Summer weekend day with 4 children 10 and under may not have been our most brilliant idea ever.  Nonetheless, somehow, we made it work.  At one of our first stops (also in the Phipps Family tradition of always running into someone we know no matter where we are), we ran into childhood/college friends who also live in Indy and is the Music Pastor at our church.  It was great to see them and such a crazy surprise.  We continued on and stopped at many of the main sites including Paul Revere's house, the Old North Church, and the U.S.S. Constitution.  With the help of Lobster mac and cheese, a lot of cold water, and an ice cream stop, we survived.

We split up and used Uber again to get back to the camp site.  This was a bit of and adventure as our Uber driver's GPS stopped working part of the way back, he didn't speak much English, and he had to rely on Jason's phone to get us back to our campsite.  We'll never know if he made it back to Boston.  The kids rode their bikes, played Wiffle ball, and swam at the beach.  It was a great end to a wonderful day.

Having never taken an RV vacation, the reality is that with 8 people, after only a few days, there is a lot of clutter and a lot of laundry already.  I'm learning to just roll with it.  Thankfully, tomorrow we head to Maine and an RV park with a few more luxuries, like a washer and dryer!

Salem, MA

On the road again.  We left Niagara Falls around 8:30 last night and drove about half way to Salem.  We needed fuel again, so we stopped at a truck stop and just ended up parking the RV there and sleeping for the night.  Amazingly, this truck stop had a full fledged Starbucks inside, so we started our day with some Venti coffees and hit the road again.  We've been using the WAZE app to direct us.  This app, however, does not account for the size of your vehicle.  At one point, it led us off the Interstate, due to slow traffic, and through a narrow streeted Boston suburb.  Lesson learned.  Jason did a great job of navigating us through, though.  We arrived at Winter Island, just east of Salem early this afternoon.  It is beautiful here.  The RV park here was a former Coast Guard air station and is right on the water.  There is a beautiful lighthouse here with a boat dock and a few beaches.

Jason and Curtis took on the task of taking the RV to dump the waste.  Thankfully, this did not turn out like it did in the Robin Williams movie, RV.  They got us situated in our spot while Sheri and I took the kids to explore the Island.  The kids loved climbing on the rocks and watching the boats.  We threw their swimsuits on and took them down to the beach.  The water is freezing, but it definitely didn't stop them.

We just finished dinner and are tucked in for the evening.  Off to Boston tomorrow to walk the Freedom Trail...

Niagara Falls

First stop on our adventure:  Niagara Falls.

 We left Columbus, Ohio around 8:30 PM last night and drove through the night to reach our first stop.  Curtis did a great job driving, and we even survived our first fuel stop.  We hadn't made reservations for our first night at an RV park because we knew it would be late, so after a bit of driving and some web surfing, we found out it was allowed to park our RV in a local Casino parking lot.  We pulled into the Seneca Casino in Niagara Falls around 4 AM.  The kids did very well and slept most of the night.

This RV is huge.  It has a king sized bed in the back bedroom, two single sized beds as bunk beds in the hall.  a queen size pull out couch, a full size bed that converts from the dining table, and a full size bed that drops down over the drivers seat.  We each easily found a spot to sleep and the casino's coffee shop made up for our lack of sleep in the morning.

We navigated to RV parking on Goat Island at Niagara Falls.  The trolley took us right to the main visitor area and overlook on the U.S. side and to the Maid of the Mist.  The kids loved the boat ride...and getting completely soaked.  After that, we walked across the Rainbow Bridge (not the pet who's passed away one) into Canada to eat lunch, explore, and see the falls from a different perspective.  We rode the SkyWheel, a huge, air conditioned ferris wheel with amazing views of the water.  I think our biggest accomplishment of the day was all of us successfully getting into Canada and back into the U.S. without drama.

Overall, it was a great day.  The kids are having a blast together and even writing a "Crew log" to document their trip.  (I took a picture to post separately).  We are back in the RV and making plans for the next leg of our trip....heading out to Salem/Boston, MA next!